When You Want to Get Him Back

If you want to get your ex boyfriend back, you may have already tried a lot of different things to get him back to you. You may have tried begging, pleading and promising to change your habits, and even went so far as to put an end to a new relationship you are in. It is important to remember what all this looks like to him. It will be difficult to get him to return if you look childish or desperate.

Try to think of any behavior like this that you showed since you broke up, and stop behaving that way now. Everything you did is obviously not working, or you would already be back together. If you followed him around and go whereever he is with friends or a date, your acting more like a stalker than a person who cares. If you want your ex boyfriend back you need to convince him that he wants to be with you, not push him farther away.

The next time you find yourself in the same place together, be it a restaurant or club when you see him, go talk to him. But instead of walking up to him and trying for his attention, as you have done before, just say hello and go about your business in another area, or tell him that since he is there, you won't bother him. Be courteous and polite and just go. If nothing else, changing your behavior will make him start thinking you have changed.

When you have an ex boyfriend you want back, it's important to do what he doesn't expect if you have tried unsuccessfully for some time. If you called 10 times per day or 3, stop calling now. Call when you really need something, not just to rehash why he needs you back. If you have no reason to call don't do it. After a week or more, give him a call just to say hello and that you thought of him. Ask if he's ok and a few simple questions like this.

If he begins to suspect that the reason why you called is a way to try and get him back like you have done before, just assure him you really called just to say hello and see how he was doing. Say goodbye and hang up on a good note. He will end up wondering why you didn't act like you have been lately.
If you are less comfortable calling and talking on the phone, mail him a letter that just says your thinking of him. It is important to allow him an opportunity to make a move. If you want your ex boyfriend back, you can not smother him with attention and love, make him come to you.

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